Abortion Vs. Adoption – Which One Will You Choose?

For many women facing unwanted pregnancy, becoming a parent is simply not an option. This may be due to financial limitations, pursuit of their education, professional careers or they simply aren’t ready to take the responsibility for a child.

Facing an unwanted pregnancy can be an emotionally devastating experience. The next step will probably be one of the most difficult decisions you will ever make, and that is to choose between adoption and abortion.

In its essence, this is a pro-life and pro-choice matter. However, both options are similar in one context; they relieve you from your parental responsibilities and allow you to pursue your goals.

Remember, you are not the only one facing this situation. Almost half of all pregnancies in the US are unplanned. There are a great number of resources and information available to help you decide.

Try to educate yourself on both options as much as possible, before making a final decision. Only you can decide what’s best for you. In this article, we will provide you with relevant information including facts, statistics and different perspectives to help you make a well-informed decision.

 

Adoption:

Adoption allows your child to be placed with another family. All parental rights and responsibilities are permanently transferred to the adoptive parents. You can decide to choose adoption at any stage during your pregnancy. You will get to choose the adoptive parents and meet them in person. The actual placement will take place once the baby is born and you have given a written consent to adoption. Adoption is an irrevocable decision once the consent papers are signed, but you can change your mind at any point during the pregnancy.

You will have to choose between an open adoption, semi-open adoption and a closed adoption. In an open adoption, you can exchange identifying information and will remain in contact with the adoptive parents and the child.

A closed adoption is the exact opposite; there is no contact and no exchange of information between the two parties. Both types have their own benefits and drawbacks. Open adoptions have become more prevalent in recent years, whereas women who wish to remain confidential can opt for a closed adoption. The most common type is a semi-open adoption, which strikes a perfect balance between the two.

 

Facts about Adoption:

  • Each year around 18,000 domestic infant adoptions take place in the United States.
  • Women who choose adoption vary in age, race, marital status, level of education, already having children or not, medical and social background.
  • Adoption is free of cost for the birthmother.
  • Historically, most of the adoptions were closed ones. However, this has changed over time and almost 60 to 70 percent adoptions are now open. Some States even enforce open adoptions by law, including Washington, California, Minnesota, Nebraska, New Mexico, Indiana and Oregon.

 

Why Choose Adoption:

Both adoption and abortion is a fundamentally difficult experience for women. The absence of the child can cause grief and sadness. However, with an adoption, knowing that you child is alive and being raised in a loving family can bring a sense of contentment and happiness. Whereas, terminating the pregnancy by means of abortion can cause long-term grievance and most women require counselling to cope with the loss.

There are thousands of couples that cannot have children of their own and adoption is their only hope to start a family. When faced with an unplanned pregnancy, women have the chance to give the gift of a child to a family that truly deserves it.

Therefore, adoption achieves a positive outcome for birthmothers, adoptive parents and the children. Also for some women having an abortion may simply not be an option because of religious or personal reasons.

Hence, adoption provides a viable alternative to abortion. It allows them to return to their previous life and not bear the responsibility of a child at a time when they are not ready. Women can decide to choose adoption at any stage during the pregnancy. Whereas, there is a risk of serious medical complications for abortions performed in the later stages of a pregnancy.

 

Abortion:

Abortion is a medical process that terminates a pregnancy in its earlier stages. Women in their earlier stages of pregnancy, usually 8 weeks or less, can end the pregnancy by using a pill.

This is referred to as a ‘medical abortion’. In a surgical abortion, doctors empty the uterus by using a suction device to end the pregnancy. Women can take this option up to 14 weeks into the pregnancy.

Like any other medical procedure, there can be some possible side effects to both medical and surgical abortion. But they are mostly considered to be safe and do not affect your ability to have children in the future.

It is recommended to get an abortion as early in your pregnancy as possible to avoid any risks. Unless you are under 18 in certain states, you do not need the consent of anyone else to get an abortion.

Abortion facts:

  • 61% of women who obtain an abortion already have at least 1 child.
  • Over half of all abortions are obtained by women in their twenties and around 18% of abortions are obtained by teenagers.
  • Abortions outnumber adoptions by a ratio of 149:1.
  • Abortions can cost from $500 to $2000, depending on multiple factors.
  • Majority of abortions are completed in the first trimester.

 

Why Choose Abortion:

Even though, both adoption and abortion provide an effective solution to unplanned pregnancies, women may choose abortion for plenty of reasons .The most distinguishing factor that differentiates abortion from adoption is that it doesn’t require women to complete the pregnancy to term.

Abortion puts an end to the pregnancy immediately, whereas, adoption involves an extensive process that requires giving birth. Some women consider abortion because they do not wish to go through the physical changes accompanied by pregnancy and birth.

Abortion may also be considered if the physical health of a woman is in danger or to prevent the birth of a child with severe medical challenges.  It is also a way for women to conceal their pregnancy by keeping the abortion a secret.

 

Conclusion:

In the end, each woman has to decide what’s best for her. Every pregnancy is unique and it is not just a matter of right vs. wrong. A lot of people have strong opinions on this matter and are willing to express them whether you ask for their advice or not.

It’s important to remember that this decision will affect you more than anyone else. So don’t let external pressure hinder your judgment. Whether you choose adoption or abortion, the decision should be carefully considered and well-informed.

 

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